alix said, i've been away at college now for three weeks, and to demonstrate ‘i am my own person’, i got my tongue pierced.
remembering i'm not her dad, just her "pseudo step dad", i wanted to be supportive and not judgemental.
so i said, well that's not so dumb. now real dumb is driving your car into a tree to see if the air bags work.
alix said, you need to do a little more work on the support there pseudo!